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 When what we expect doesn’t happen yet we keep expecting it to happen and we become locked into a result that may never happen.

Expecting something to happen based on personal knowledge, observation or analysis can be desapointed. Expecting something to happen because someone told you that it would happen can be  even risky.  

The point is that something ALWAYS happens, but it just might not be what you expected. Whenever we hold on to one scenario too tightly or too long, we become rigid and block out all of the other possibilities. Setting expectations is okay; it’s human and normal to assume certain things will come to pass, but life has the option of sending disappointment instead of joy, sending black instead of white, a boy instead of a girl or a loss instead of a win. And how we react to what’s delivered is the key to how our lives will unfold.

 When expectations don’t materialize, we have choices. But if we become so attached to what we want instead of what we have, we may miss life’s next delivery, which may be greater than we could ever expect, dream or pray for. I believe that the Universe will deliver what we seek, but it expects us to be paying attention to everything that comes our way, because only then will we be open enough to accept the way-better version of what we thought we wanted to begin with.

 Whatever you’re waiting for is waiting for you to see that it’s already here.

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                                                                                                                                                                  I’ll try to keep myself open up to you.

                                                                                                                                                                    That’s a promise that I made to love.

                                                                                                                                                                                                            —Joni Mitchell

 I read this quote today on someone’s Facebook page and a better instruction for love, I can’t find. The foremost allegiance is to love itself and this is a pledge you can actually honor, as opposed to the pledge to always love another person, which as anyone who has been in a relationship for more than, say, two weeks, knows is not always possible. Sometimes you feel love and sometimes you don’t. However, acting lovingly is always possible. By this, I don’t mean being sweet and nice all the time. I mean being yourself all the time. All. The. Time. And, even more interesting, inviting your beloved to be herself all the time, too. Looking for a relationship that is based on how much you love each other is a tiny bit short sited. Looking for a relationship with someone who has a capacity for love—for openness, honesty, tenderness, humor, and an ongoing willingness to admit to her own confusion—is an ingenious maneuver. Finding true love isn’t about finding someone who loves you, but someone who is willing to dedicate herself to love; who is open enough to feel what she feels, welcome what you feel, and then, together, hand-in-hand, shoulder-to-shoulder, watch it all go by. For me, a meditation practice, which is the practice of opening, noticing, letting go, and starting over has been the ground, path, and fruition of my own dedication to love.

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There is no substantiality in what you expect to become a materialized form of a desiring object unless the origin of one’s

mindset genre is highly conditioned or/and is based on its mere possession.

We might suffer addictions and cravings of various natures in terms of things and personal belongings but they have no

meaning other than being completely irrelevant for the very bottom of what’s truly essential.

And all of this becomes even more irrelevant in profiling a person who can be any of us searchers who strive for finding

freedom.

Detachment and non-expectation are two important paths that can lead our way in becoming, beholding and experiencing

more profound Self.

S~He who achieves love and appreciation in life, unconditionally, s~he is the one who can rejoice enlightenment and sense

of completeness as a part of the Whole.

Without this no human soul is capable of reaching whatever stage in life that would be free of promises and expectations.

It is in the core of each one of us to crave for love and appreciation. It is our instinct, our rhythm, the energy that feeds our existence. It is our food, our water and the air …It is what warms up our hearts and brightens up our minds …

It is our high and low, our good and bad, our vice and our virtue, our freedom and imprisonment …our verity …

It is the flesh which fills our very own shell …

What I see hidden behind the curtain of falling of the human spirit short of whatever expectation is the inability to accept non-acceptance.

Accepting non-acceptance is not accepting to not being loved or far more, to not being appreciated.

It is an act of appreciation towards diversity. It is an act of unification of the essentials of the fundamental dualities.

When we picture ourselves in the realm of infinite possibilities we must see ourselves thru the lens of our own projection

respecting at the same time that it exists as one but is functional only as a part of the Whole.

One must realize this for his own sake and for the sake of those who belong to his beautiful Universe as long as there’s the

flow of energies merging in such a profound and such a flawless way.

I must fess up and say that I often see myself as a bystander in the realm of my own projection but with the fact that I am

quite self-aware of that is only giving me the chance for self-retorts and one always fresh commence.

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It’s in our human nature to be more or less aware of the sentiments we experience during our emotional development in achieving more profound maturity.

There is no such thing as the awakening of the human sense while witnessing the Divine interdependence with another being be it human or some other form of life.

The interconnectedness is the most precious flow of Divine energy which emerges almost always into one deepest form of self-fulfillment and emotional self-realization.

The emotional tide becomes nothing but meaningful embodiment of a feeling nurtured in the beauty of a lifetime journey.

Our emotions are not necessarily consciously chosen nor necessarily and always deliberately created.

There are so many of them present but latent, waiting for their moment of arousal.

There are so many present but forgotten, waiting for the instant to be revived.

Sometimes the sentiments are so colorful and so vivacious that we literally try to hold at bay being afraid of them, instead of finding the right path to their definite exposure and manifestation and not only but an explicit expressiveness that their sensation is what makes us feel alive.

But, whatever form or imaginative shape they might create in becoming an inspiration or incitement of whatever kind they are simply the invincible human tide which gives authenticity of the present moment of each individual. They might increase the pleasure of each moment but they can also bring you so very low.

They are the ebb tide and the high tide in the flow of its magnificence, the human energy, the human beauty, the power of the emotions.

It would be nice to be able to find the horizon between in achieving harmony with the self but it’s impossible.

Our human nature is in synchrony with the Nature which expresses itself through us.

God gave us this beautiful Universe and has gifted us with the most sacred Temple of human body, mind and soul.

I always say: “God gave this beautiful Planet in the hand of the man … and look what he has done with it?!?

I don’t want to ever say:”God gave me this beautiful Temple and look what I have done with it!!!

So I’d rather remain mindful of the preciousness of the emotional tides celebrating and rejoicing the preciousness of

each moment I become aware of the radiant horizon twinkling somewhere in between.

It would only be the Nature celebrating my entrance into the beauty of a peaceful mind.



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We might have been led to believe that our most profound capacity in experiencing the beauty of our internal landscape lies in the profound capacity of giving a higher spiritual significance to our lives throughout this never ending process of spiritual growth and refinement we are experiencing as most sacred human quality …

I presume it is quite understandable giving the fact that it depends on turning our senses completely inward gaining the liberty by deliberate conscious creating of a belief system free of all induced and self-induced unconscious habitual patterns.

I believe that it starts as a mere flirt long before achieving the mastery of understanding.

I believe we remain entangled long enough before we start realizing what it truly entails.

I believe it means discovering the harmony within the self and thus follows the responsiveness of ‘the self’ as a part of the whole. Makes sense, isn’t it?
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Do we really live our “Positive Lifestyle”?

Do we really enjoy the Fountain of immense possibilities hidden in the very core of one’s self?

Are there only empty words, repetitions, quotations and just an ordinary play of a lousy supporting role into our very own “Life Story”? … or, we are really doing something significant in making our life worth living?

Is our True Personality only an adequate consequence of our not so Clear Intentionality?

Is our Sacred Reality only an adequate consequence of our Deep Personality?
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