~ Acceptance of Non-Acceptance ~
May 2, 2011 in TYU
There is no substantiality in what you expect to become a materialized form of a desiring object unless the origin of one’s
mindset genre is highly conditioned or/and is based on its mere possession.
We might suffer addictions and cravings of various natures in terms of things and personal belongings but they have no
meaning other than being completely irrelevant for the very bottom of what’s truly essential.
And all of this becomes even more irrelevant in profiling a person who can be any of us searchers who strive for finding
freedom.
Detachment and non-expectation are two important paths that can lead our way in becoming, beholding and experiencing
more profound Self.
S~He who achieves love and appreciation in life, unconditionally, s~he is the one who can rejoice enlightenment and sense
of completeness as a part of the Whole.
Without this no human soul is capable of reaching whatever stage in life that would be free of promises and expectations.
It is in the core of each one of us to crave for love and appreciation. It is our instinct, our rhythm, the energy that feeds our existence. It is our food, our water and the air …It is what warms up our hearts and brightens up our minds …
It is our high and low, our good and bad, our vice and our virtue, our freedom and imprisonment …our verity …
It is the flesh which fills our very own shell …
What I see hidden behind the curtain of falling of the human spirit short of whatever expectation is the inability to accept non-acceptance.
Accepting non-acceptance is not accepting to not being loved or far more, to not being appreciated.
It is an act of appreciation towards diversity. It is an act of unification of the essentials of the fundamental dualities.
When we picture ourselves in the realm of infinite possibilities we must see ourselves thru the lens of our own projection
respecting at the same time that it exists as one but is functional only as a part of the Whole.
One must realize this for his own sake and for the sake of those who belong to his beautiful Universe as long as there’s the
flow of energies merging in such a profound and such a flawless way.
I must fess up and say that I often see myself as a bystander in the realm of my own projection but with the fact that I am
quite self-aware of that is only giving me the chance for self-retorts and one always fresh commence.
Joy said on May 3, 2011
1. Great Article!
I completely agree that learning to live our life with no attachments and no expectations is our way to enlightenment. It isn’t easy
The most difficult part for me to practice detachment and have no expectations from my son.
I am still working on this.
Osho said that “Love is a by-product of freedom; it is the overflowing joy of freedom,
it is the fragrance of freedom. First the freedom has to be there,
then love follows.” I think he is right!
Joy said on May 3, 2011
Great Article!
I completely agree that learning to live our life with no attachments and non-expectation is our way to enlighten. Sometime it isn’t easy.
The most difficult part for me to except detachment and no- expectation from my son.
I am still working on this.
Osho said that “Love is a by-product of freedom; it is the overflowing joy of freedom,
it is the fragrance of freedom. First the freedom has to be there,
then love follows.” I think he is right!
eva said on May 2, 2011
I recommend not eating chocolat;e) It induces a whole lot of unbearable desire, craving, addiction, obsession and even dis~ease,… and … inflicts terrible pain … when being out of ;^))
Once you arrive to the point of still adoring it but being able to resist it … well, that’s when you accept the fact of non-accepting to eat the chocolate although you are ready to die for it !